Just weeks after Barack Obama was inaugurated, the following story appeared in the New York Daily News:
WASHINGTON - President Obama has adopted role model Abraham Lincoln's practice of writing deeply personal letters to the families of troops killed in battle. He signs them "Barack."
Bill Brennan, the father of Marine Lance Cpl. Julian Brennan, said at first he barely glanced at the letter he had received last week.
"I assumed it was a form letter and then I saw that he had signed it - just 'Barack.' You could tell it wasn't a stamped signature. I was so surprised he signed it with only his first name. We were very touched," the Brooklyn dad said Tuesday.
Without disclosing the details of the letter, Brennan said, "It had some personal mentions about Julian's history. I was inspired to respond."
An aspiring actor, Julian Brennan, 25, was killed by a land mine Jan. 24, the first U.S. combat death in Afghanistan during Obama's presidency.
Obama has since written to the families of about a dozen troops killed in Afghanistan and Iraq. He handwrites the notes, has an aide type them up and then signs the version to be delivered to loved ones.Now that his first term in office is nearing its end, it appears that practice may have been short-lived. A story recently appeared on the website Click2Houston.com describing the disappointment expressed by the father of a recently killed Marine over the letter of condolence received from the president:
A man who lost a son to the war in Afghanistan is disappointed in the condolence letter he received from President Barack Obama.The story links to two letters to families of other service members (here and here) also killed in action. I have reproduced the body of each letter below:
Tom Logan, a Willis resident, calls the note late, impersonal, disrespectful and essentially a form letter.
"It opened up a wound in our heart you can't fix. You can't send another letter. You can't make it right," Logan said.
Logan's son, USMC Cpl. Joseph D. Logan, was killed Jan. 19, 2012, along with five other men when the helicopter they were in crashed.
Joey Logan was 22.
|Letter #1, May 9, 2012|
|Letter #2, May 9, 2012|
|Letter #1, September 23, 2011|
|Letters #2-#4, September 23, 2011|
|Letters #5-#7, September 23, 2011|
In February 2011, an article appeared on the Austin, TX, Statesmen.com website honoring Marine Cpl. Tevan Nguyen of Hutto, killed in Afghanistan on Dec. 28, 2010. Although an image of the letter is not provided, the article contains the following quote:
"A simple letter cannot ease the pain of losing a child, but I hope you take solace in knowing that his brave service exceeded all measures of selflessness and devotion to his country," President Barack Obama wrote.This sentence, of course, comes from the now familiar middle paragraph present in all the other letters above.
Finally, in November 2009, a long overdue letter from the White House came to the family of Gregg Wenzel, a CIA operative killed in Ethiopia in July 2003. His family posted the letter online at a site set up to honor this man. Here we find what may be the prototype for the letter the White House continued to send to grieving families for at least the next two and a half years:
|Letter, November 2, 2009|
With more than 1,500 service members killed in Afghanistan since Barack Obama became president, as well as others (such as Wenzel the CIA operative) who have died in the line of duty, the above represents a very small sample of the condolence letters that have gone out from the White House in the last four years. (President Obama even changed the White House condolence letter policy to include service members who commit suicide while deployed in a combat zone.) However, I can find no examples of condolence letters that do not fit the pattern of those I have presented here. If any are brought to my attention, I will gladly link to them.
The President may have entered office trying to emulate Abraham Lincoln, but soon surrendered to the less labor-intensive and less personal form letter. For those whose family members have made the ultimate sacrifice for their country, such a letter from the Commander in Chief must be cold comfort. A President whose campaign currently offers 23 different eCards (topics ranging from the repeal of DADT to the end of the war in Iraq to women's rights) should have found the time to ease the pain of these families with a bit more of a human touch.